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Thoughts behind my Silhouette

I can see my silhouette on the ground
Nothing to light me up but the moon
No stars are visible
This pain is inevitable
There is no trace of happiness
Just fear, loathe, and regret
I wish I didn’t love you
And the stars came out for me
I wish I could forget
Like how easily you turn it all to waste
I miss me
Please stop breaking my heart

This silence is so loud
I tried to speak but voice doesn’t come out
My heart’s whining inside
My feelings are to subside
But I keep on coming back
Through this rope that I still hold on to
Both ends of this tag of war is you
I have nowhere to go
Just worse memories and worst memories
Sickness rushes inside of me
I wish you had never looked me that way
So I shouldn’t have caught your eyes
That made me stay
Time has passed and what I only see
The silhouette on the ground is me

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Fun or Priorities?

Being able to accomplish something proficiently really makes us feel good about ourselves and feel like all our efforts are worth it. However, being able to do something and you are disappointed with your work, makes you want to turn back time and wish you had done the most important thing: priorities.

 

I wrote this post because a very important lesson has been gathered  by my mind today. To be honest, I have A LOT of posts to publish later but I’m keeping this blog more like what I wrote in the about because this is actually more crucial to be taught to others as well.

 

And to skip the boring why-am-I-writing-this part, let’s get to the real message.

 

We all have priorities. Anyone who doesn’t have a single priority is just plain impossible. But it is up on us if we’re going to consider things in our life as priorities. We make some of it, but others we just go easy on them. Let the time deal with it, I don’t want stress. Like, come on, it’s normal to say that. Who doesn’t want fun right? And it’s obviously not fun if we just work work work all day and not have time for entertainment. (same as to study study study without enjoyment) We deserve to have fun and to make ourselves smile by doing the things that makes us happy, for example playing sports, eating (but not over-eating because that’s bad), spending time with our friends or family, reading a book, playing video games, blogging, or reading blogs like The Ryry Blog *wink, wink* kidding. I mean we can all do that stuff and more because we are not designed to just do and do and not have fun. The point is, it’s okay to get off your head that “busyness” during your free time and relax because we make a good outcome of something if we are not frustrated while doing it.

 

My reminder is that: Don’t have too much fun. Anything that is too much is not good. Why? Because if you had too much fun, you’ll forget about the more important things that you have to finish. And you’ll just say nah, there’s another time for that or it’ll do. Does that make any sense? Probably yes while you’re still having fun. But in that moment when you get the result of not finishing your priority, Oh you wish you had finished what you needed to do first. Trust me, regret slaps you like a tsunami and you never know when it’s going to come. So while you still have time, finish your priority and enjoy everything after.

 

Good luck with life.

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You Do Not Have To Love Him

You do not have to love him and he does not have to love you either. You’ll just break each other’s heart. You love somebody else, don’t break another man’s heart again this time. It will be all your fault in the end.

You can like him. But you can’t love him.

DIY Glittery Pens

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Not only are these super pretty, but they’re also super easy to make!

MATERIALS:

  1. Ball pens
  2. Glitter Glue (any color)

 

Only 2 materials!

 

Now to the procedure:

  • All you have to do is remove the cap of your ball pen and the ink tube or whatever you call that.
  • Fill the ball pen case with glitter glue half-full or ¾ depending on how much glitter glue you want or the size of your ball pen.
  • Insert the ink tube to its case and be sure that you have the tip of your ball pen inserted into the glitter glue container’s opening because some glue will be squeezed out while putting back the pen ink. That is to make the process tidier and you will not waste so much glitter glue.
  • Put back the cap and you’re done!

I told you it’s just gonna be easy! You can make it in different colors or you can also experiment combining colors to make it more beautiful. Here are other pictures of these sparkly pens that me and my squad made:

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Different ball pen and glitter glue colors!

Red and green ones

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Different Colors

here are the closeups

Enjoy making yours! And please don’t forget to send me a pic if you made one, I’d be very glad!!

Be artsy! ❤️ -Ryry

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Time Heals

Too many “I miss yous” from the poems I’ve made and the lines I’ve said
Here I survived without you beside
Those “I miss yous” are no longer feelings
They’re just three little words that I used to cry for
But not anymore.

Truly, time heals.

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Quick Update

WHAT’S NEW

Since I was a dressmaking student when I was in Junior High, I have no idea about our elective in SHS which is Bread and Pastry. Yes, I’m gonna bake! I’ve always wanted to learn how to bake but I didn’t choose that specialization over dressmaking before. I was really passionate in learning more about fashion. But now that I’ve learned so much and I know that I can improve myself through practice and experimenting in sewing (I trust myself so much about garments & designing. *pat on the back*), I am now heading for the kitchen!! I am so ready to bake treats that would surely make mama proud. 😊

 

‘UH-OH’ SITUATION

This is about Mr. Meter. Argh, because I accidentally told his classmate (Kim) that I have a crush in their class. I didn’t tell him that it was ***** because I’m afraid he’ll tell Mr. Meter or their classmates. The problem is, he thought my crush is Roy. But Roy’s not my crush, actually. It’s Roy’s friend!! I think he told Roy that I fancy him (even if I don’t) because I saw him look at me differently and I didn’t like it. What if Mr. Meter feels the same for me but when he knows that it was Roy whom I have a crush with, he’ll stop liking me? Ohh, please not be like that. I have no feelings for Roy and I regret I even told Kim. Haha

Uh-oh. I guess I’m really gonna have to tell Kim about Mr. Meter 😕

 

WHY INACTIVE

Why? It’s no longer summer or vacation here in the Philippines and I’m VERY busy with school! Tons of assignments, reports, tests, projects, activities and outputs that are cominggg and they won’t stop. I am really stressed tbh but I have goals so I’ll stay motivated. But I wish I can be active again here pls pls pls. I miss those times when I can just chill and be carefree but now WHOAH I don’t even know. *exhales depression* I’ll always try to write blog posts more but I don’t know how!  I still have 3 more books to read (waaaaaa!) but I’ll make time for this, maybe not just now because I’m way to busy.

 

FRIENDSHIP

My ex-best friend and I kinda had the “talk” but I still don’t know if I want us again. I don’t know how to trust her anymore. But we’re totally fine now. The little ump is that, I don’t want us to become best friends anymore – friends, yes – but best friends? Nah? Nah. But I think what she knows is we’re still best friends. And that’s a problem.

Now about my Squad (VS Queens), we’re now starting to really get totally sisterssssssssssssss and we’re loving every moment we’re all together – talking or not talking. LOL. I just went to the city with Shie and we went shopping. It was unbelievably fun but we wish Betty and Jean were there with us 💔

That’s the ‘quick’ update 😂 Until my next post! (I wonder when?)

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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU HAVE HATERS

This post is dedicated to my fab girrrl Jeanie who’s dealing with this kind of matter right now. Cheer up babe!

And also to everyone who wants to know my ways on how to stay happy even if you’re surrounded with haters out there. You guys don’t really deserve to stress a thing over them.

But! this is also for entertainment and information to all of you 😊

 

 

What to do when you have haters:

 

 

Out of nowhere, those “haters” just come out when you least expect it. But if you know that you’re in the right place (if you haven’t done anything wrong), then this post will really help you in dealing with them. Here we go…

 

 

Don’t let them affect you.

 

I mean, don’t be affected. If you know you’ve done nothing wrong to get them to hate you, don’t stress over them. Your time is too precious to just get affected with those people who are probably just seeking for attention. And there are so many reasons to smile about instead of frowning because of them.

 

If there’s a reason why they hate you even when they’ve got no reason to, it just means they’re insecure slash jealous slash envy of you. Is it even your fault that you are you? Really, girl, if you just let them talk the talk and do not care, they’re just gonna tire themselves for nothing. Show them that hating people is pointless by not getting affected at all. But I know deep inside, you’re still hurt even when you deny it. The key is not to show it (don’t cry in public. It’s just babyish.) Just show them that you’re not hurt and be as strong as rock because you are!

 

And if you let them do the boring part (talking nonsense) and they realize that it’s all meaningless to you, they’ll stop. Why would they spend their time on someone who does not even care, right?

 

But, if they try to make it worse than just talking, make your first move: reach out to those adult people who can help (e.g. school principal, guidance councilor, adviser/teacher, parents, guardians, etc.) What’s wrong with asking for help, right? If you feel like you and your friends can handle them, let me tell you that you’re wrong. They can hurt you physically and you can’t get away with that unless you fight back — which is not a good thing to do (and who says you’re gonna win all the time?) because if you do that, all of that ‘not caring at all’ that you did will just be nonsense. Plus, if this gets to the school principal, you’re gonna get involved and that’s a big NO NO. So it’s really important to ask help from an adult especially to those with authority.

 

However, not all cases ends up to that “physical fighting” so you can just forget about that if the “not getting affected” already shood them away. But if your case got into that point, take my advice. There’s nothing wrong with reaching out for help. Think about what’s wrong with it and you’ll end up on nothing. See?

 

I actually thought that adults don’t usually know what to do next because I am a teen. And they’re adults. It’s different and they won’t be able to relate with me. But once I realised that they also experienced being a teen before and they’ve been there and they’ve done that, who knows better now? If you think you’ve had so much struggles in life, they had plentyyyyyyyyy of them and they’ve survived them.

Don’t think for another reason to say no, I’ve got all my reasons 😂 fyi, I won a debate contest against students from a different school last February (with Jeanie!) and trust me, we never run out of reasons 😂

OK. Before this post get even longer, I’ll wrap this already 😛 By the way, if you have questions or clarifications or information that I forgot to talk about regarding this matter, tell me at the comment box below or message me if you want it to be more personal on the contact on the menu 🙂

 

Stop being hateful and just spread love ❤️ Smile before you switch site! Aaaah bye XXXX

 

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